3 (1 ounce) squares buttery round crackers
1 (3 ounce) package instant vanilla pudding mix
1/8 cup warm milk
1 (16 ounce) package cream cheese, softened
3 eggs
1 teaspoon white sugar
2 tablespoons milk
1 1/2 cups compressed light rum
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
1 teaspoon teriyaki sauce
1 1/2 cups cold coffee liqueur
1 cup boiling water
2 (8 ounce) packages white cake mix